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A NICE NEW INTERVIEW!
Dear lovelies —
This interview with the smart and wonderful Jennifer Byrne just aired on ABC Australia. I filmed it when I was in Sydney in August (at the GORGEOUS National Library) and I thought you might enjoy…
https://www.abc.net.au/tv/firsttuesday/s3855365.htm
Jennifer Byrne Presents: Elizabeth Gilbert
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Journalist and publisher Jennifer Byrne hosts The Book Club on ABC TV. Byrne will be joined by a panel of book lovers and experts who will discuss titles from fiction, non-fiction, biography, thriller, romance and history genres
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ONE STORY MAGAZINE!
Hi friends —
Do you all know about One Story Magazine? It's such a great and smart little treat for readers. My friends Hannah Tinti and Maribeth Batcha founded it several years ago. Once a month, One Story publishes…well…one story! One VERY GOOD short story, or an excerpt from a new novel. It's such a nice thing to have this cool little booklet slide into your house every month, and to be able to explore the work of surprising new writers or long-time favorite ones. The magazine only publish each author once, so you'll always be treated to something fresh and inventive — along with links for author interviews, as well.
It is a simple, intelligent and fabulous operation.
And this month, they have published as a stand-alone story Chapter Five of my new novel "The Signature of All Things", which delights me because I've wanted to work with One Story for years.
HAPPY!
Anyhow, if anyone wants to subscribe to this great independent magazine, you can find all the information right here:
https://www.one-story.com/
They also run really terrific writing workshops, by the way!
A toast to the joys of reading and writing.
Liz
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THE EVENING COUNTDOWN CONTINUES!
Only 8 more days until "The Signature of All Things" is published!
Which reminds me of this fantastic joke:
Q: What did the 0 say to the 8?
A: Nice belt!
(This is the kind of righteously funny and complexly clever material, guys, that makes me TOP OF MY GAME as a serious novelist. Just sayin'.)
But seriously….only eight days everyone!
8 = The Atomic Number of Oxygen.
8 = The Number of Legs on a Spider.
8 = The Number of Notes in an Octave.
8 = The Number of Mile of Road that Eminem grew up on.
8 = THE NUMBER OF DAYS TILL THE SIGNATURE OF ALL THINGS!
So eat your cake and enjoy your oxygen, my friends.
Love, love, love,
LIZ
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MOVIE MONDAY!
Dear friends…
In these days leading up to the publication of "The Signature of All Things", I promised I would show this book trailer every Monday, so here it is, for those who have not seen it!
https://www.elizabethgilbert.com/video/
And for anyone who wants to pre-order this book, which O Magazine just called "the novel of a lifetime", and which The New York Times just called "a rip-roaring tale", and which The Wall Street Journal just called "the most ambitious and purely imaginative work in Gilbert's 20 year career"…why, you can do so RIGHT HERE:
https://www.elizabethgilbert.com/books/the-signature-of-all-things/
And lastly, if you want to come see me on my upcoming book tour (come see me! it'll be fun) here are the details:
https://www.elizabethgilbert.com/events/
HOORAY!
Liz
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"The Signature of All Things" promo trailer Elizabeth talks about THE SIGNATURE OF ALL THINGS Elizabeth Gilbert: A new way to think about creativity TEDTal
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THOUGHT OF THE DAY: IN DEFENSE OF LONELINESS…
Dear Ones —
So the other day, I posted an interview I did with Mother Jones magazine, in which I said that it's really important for people (for women, especially) to learn how to be lonely.
(The interview is here, by the way, if you want to see it: https://www.motherjones.com/media/2013/09/interview-elizabeth-gilbert-eat-pray-love-signature-all-things)
I wanted to expand just a bit on that idea, especially in light of a conversation I had this week with a gorgeous, heartbroken 28 year-old woman who was doing my hair. I'd never met this girl before, but we started talking, the way you do with perfect strangers, about love and loss. (Is there any other topic in a hair salon?) She told me that she'd just left her boyfriend of four years because she'd finally had it with him — had it with not being treated as something precious. She said, "I gotta go out there right now and get myself somebody BETTER."
I found myself taking her hand (this woman I'd never met before) and saying with the utmost urgency, "But will you promise me first to spend at least six months alone? Will you work your way through this heartbreak before you go replacing anybody? Will you promise to commit to at least six celibate months before you throw yourself at another guy? Will you absolutely swear to it?"
She seemed puzzled, then worried. She said, "But I get so bored and lonely by myself. Watching TV alone at night? I can't think of anything worse."
I said, "I can. I can think of a LOT of things worse. Like, for instance, this time next month you're already in another relationship with a guy who doesn't treat you like somebody precious. And you put up with his shit just because you can't bear your own company."
Then I told her my theory about how one of the most important things we need to learn in life is HOW TO BE LONELY. We need to learn how to sit through the initial discomfort and panic of loneliness, so we can get to the other side and realize that it didn't kill us. I met a woman in her 50s recently who told me that she won't leave her abusive husband because "I never want to have to walk into a party or a restaurant alone."
Friends, at some point, we all have to learn how to walk into a party or a restaurant alone. Otherwise, we will be willing to walk in with ANYBODY (or worse, walk out with anybody.) We have to learn how to endure our own company and hold our heads high. And sometimes, after enough time alone, we can even learn to enjoy ourselves. And best of all, after enough time and practice, we can sometimes even learn to revere ourselves.
I did not learn this lesson for many, many years. I never let myself be alone for five minutes. I just traded one partner for another, because I could not bear an empty space beside me. Which meant that I was never CHOOSING who to be with; I was just filling in an empty seat, an empty bed, an empty self.
I remember when I was traveling alone during the Eat Pray Love journey and I crossed this threshold where suddenly I realized, "I am going to treat myself like I am my own amazing boyfriend. I'm going to be SO GOOD to me. I'm going to take me to the most beautiful places. I'm going to say the most comforting words to myself. I'm going ask me every day, 'What do you need, dear one? What can I do for you?'" And we ended up having an amazing time together — me and me.
Such that, when I finally met the man who treated me exactly as well and as tenderly as I had been treating myself, my heart recognized him and said: THIS IS GOOD. My heart said: THIS IS WHAT WE HAVE GROWN USED TO. Had I not spent that year (more, actually) alone and practiced self-care, my heart might never have seen it, might never have noticed him, might never have learned what it means to be treated well. But once you learn what is good, you settle for nothing less.
So six months, I made that girl promise. At LEAST six months alone, I made her swear. We shook on it. And it was sort of comic — here I was, a perfect stranger, and she was agreeing to my demand that she commit to celibacy for half a year…AT LEAST half a year. But that's, I believe, what even she knew she needed. To be lonely until it didn't scare her anymore. Until she wasn't just stapling herself to the next warm body that came along.
For those out there who have been alone for years, of course, and who fear the opposite (intimacy; risk) this advice probably does not stand or have any meaning. But for those of you who are like I used to be, or who are like this sweet hairdresser — rushing to fill the empty space with ANYTHING or ANYONE…well, give it a thought.
Don't be afraid of yourself, OK? Sit through the lonely until you get to the good.
Love,
Liz
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